Praying for World Peace, Short Shorts and the Holy RosaryMonday, October 07, 2013
This conversation went on back and forth, so I decided to agree to specifically pray for world peace.
As I got older, my prayers changed. As a child, I prayed for simple pleasures in life. When I got a little older, my prayers were more structured. I used to pray the rosary every day especially in the month of October. Now that I'm a lot older, my prayers are simpler -- more of saying thanks and praise, and once in a while (hopefully) strength in times of challenges.
Although, I kept few habits such as praying while driving and making a left turn or closing my eyes in a quick prayer while my children drive away in our jeep.
Every day, I try to read a few pages from Neal Donald Walsh's "Conversations with God".
"If there is something you choose to experience in your life, do not “want” it—choose it." is one of the quotes that usually comes up while I browse through the pages.
Where I pray has changed, too. I used to go to church every week. And then something didn't work out that going to church didn't seem like visiting God.
Through out my day, wherever I might be, I would be having conversations with God that I think sometimes when I was walking in the streets of New York people would smile -- because I fit in with everyone else who were talking to themselves!
Last week, after a long time of not being at church, my son and I attended mass together. I tried to focus on the bible reading but I was finding it harder and harder to pay attention. It was probably because I counted 7 teenage girls wearing short shorts!
I have nothing against short shorts. I myself own a few pairs but short shorts at church? My, times are changing!
Growing up, going to church is the day to dress up. People used to say, "put on your Sunday's best." As times change, I can understand why Sunday's best can be a casual day. However, wearing revealing short shorts -- when was that acceptable? Maybe I'm old fashioned or ancient or "Jurassic" as my friends call those who are 50 and up, but was there a memo saying it's acceptable to wear short shorts?
Is it better to attend mass in whatever outfit you seem fit than not going to church at all? At least they get to go to church as opposed to skipping church all together?
Rosary beads. Did you grow up carrying something every day? Well, I did. I carry a rosary in my pocket or in my purse. It makes me feel safe. Last year, my friend gave me a mala (108 beads). It reminds me to take a few minutes to breathe, say thanks and praise.
Mala allows me to say 108 omhs, helps me step away from the hectic day to day routines and deadlines. When I learned to pray the rosary, there were only a total of 15 mysteries. Now, there are 5 more (The Luminous Mysteries).
For me, doing 108 omhs is similar to saying 50 Hail Marys. Sometimes it takes a while to get on to full meditation that I needed the repetitiveness of the omhs and the rosary to calm me down.
We all have different ways of meditating. We all have different reasons for praying. But one thing is common, we do things because we chose do them.