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Life is not about how you weather the storm, it’s how you have fun dancing in the rain my case, it's the spontaneous dancing around the house, the "ewok-ness" in me!

The year is almost over! One more holiday celebration before we celebrate the New Year.

It’s 11 o’clock the day after Christmas, I have a kitchen full of dishes, boxes and mess. I wish I can just twitch my nose and make everything clean, put away and organized.

But in the real world….no such thing, ha!

But it's due time, everything will be in place...


Someone asked me, “Jen, how do you do it? How do you make it look so easy?”

The past few years had been tough. (It seems like I’ve been saying that for the past five years). It seems like every time we seem to have gotten pass a hurdle, a new obstacle is knocking on our doors.


This past year, with the help from G-d, family and friends, and with faith, hope and love, I survived the year with a smile!

Every night, when I close my eyes, I try to look back and review my day and see what new fun stuff I can squeeze in for tomorrow.

One lesson learned,

“Life is not about how you weather the storm, but it’s how you have fun dancing in the rain!”

So keep smiling. It's really not that bad.

(thanks to my nephew who captured my ewok-ness up-close!)

Have a Happy Holidays and Happy New Year everyone!

(and thanks to my honey who always manages to capture my KINKAY-ness on jpegs!)
(KINKAY is being-silly in Tagalog)

Thank you for loving me.


  1. are too cute!! Loved this post! It was so fun! And you are gorgeous!

  2. The pictures and your words reflect the beauty and joy of the holiday season - Thanksgiving through Christmas, eve and day - We do have a lot to be thankful for.
    Love, Mom and Dad

  3. Too cute, Jen!

    Hope your Christmas was a most wonderful one and may you and your family near and far have the best that 2011 can offer.

  4. You are so cute! Jen, let's hope your New Year is filled with nothing but wonderful surprises!

  5. @Alicia, thank you..Happy New Year!
    @Mom and Dad - you are part of ME, as always!
    @Buckeroomama, thank you. May the New Year bring you more joy!
    @Felicia, thank you. May your New Year be filled with more bright ideas!

  6. You're so slim and pretty, Jenjen!! Love the pics.

    Happy Wednesday!


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