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theMotherhood, a unique gathering

It’s been two months, and I’m totally loving it!
“Three Things I’m Grateful For” is how I start my day,
Reading the headlines, the questions and the stories
Is like hanging out with all of you in the park or in the hallways.

theMotherhood, a unique place I bumped into,
Every one keeps their doors unlocked.
Knock once, and you’ll be greeted with a smile,
Ask, and answers just keep pouring in.

Meeting friends is hard to do,
Finding true friends is even tougher!
For two months, you all said hello!
A community of mothers – supporting one another!
We talk about our children;
We share each other’s fears.
We chat about almost anything
We zenwalk together in different corners of this world.

We share about our love for this world – making a difference no matter how small.
We come together to support our husbands,
We check out each other’s dinner menu, vacation and money garden,
We share inspirations to cheer one another.

We comfort each other in time of sorrow,
We express ourselves and not worry about being judged.
We pass along tips for making things work
We connect no matter how far away it may seem.

It only took a peek at one of the google-ads on my site,
A login, a password and a mission for me to make new friends,
Will this love and friendship last, I don’t know-But it doesn’t matter …
Because I was able to laugh, cry, dance, burp and smile.

To all my sisters in theMotherood, thank you for being there!
Thank you for keeping your doors open!

Whether you're Spanish, French, German, Italian, Japanese or Filipino-
(and any other nationality)
Mi amiga, mon ami, Mein Freund, il mio amico, 私の友人, kaibigan...
My friend, my friend…
Having you as a friend, is priceless !

I just can't say good-bye...
Adios, au revoir, Auf Wiedersehen, arrivederci, さようなら, Pa-alam

So I guess, until next time…
Hasta próximo tiempo, Jusqu'à la prochaine fois, Bis zum nächsten Mal, Fino al prossimo tempo, 次回まで, Hanggang sa susunod

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  1. Beautifully written and so true! =)

  2. Just so beautiful and made me cry, in a good way.

  3. JenJen, thank you for your moving, thoughtful, beautiful poem!! You have totally made my day and have captured TheMotherhood so perfectly!!!

  4. my mom is adddddddicted to the motherhood:(

  5. Emily and Cooper, you truly created something unique! And the fact that you attract so many thoughtful and loving mothers! I just wished you guys were there in 2005...

  6. Honey,
    Thank you for telling me about The Motherhood. I am loving it.
    Told cousin Risa to go on your blog and visit The Motherhood too.
    I hope she does. I think she will love it too.
    Good night.
    Love, Mom

  7. Brandie, you're one of the reasons theMotherhood is such a unique loving community.

    Mom, I'm glad you are enjoying theMotherhood. Hopefully, others will find it, too.


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